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My marriage… With Mrs Modupe Owa
How did you meet your husband?
I met my lovely husband, Temitope Joshua, in the gospel church I attended. I was already a member before he joined. I was in the choir, while he was in the ushering unit.
What were his qualities that you found attractive?
At that time, to be sincere, he wasn’t really physically attractive to me. But each of those qualities that I didn’t like then are the very things I now find endearing about him. He’s tall and dark-skinned, and I still admire him to this day.
How did he propose to you?
He walked up to me and told me he would like us to have a relationship. When he asked me out, I asked him to go pray about it, and when our relationship was confirmed to be God-ordained through the mouths of several ministers, we got married after four years of courtship. During those four years, we met only in the church; I never went to his house.
At what point in the relationship were you certain that he would marry you?
Our relationship was rooted in our faith in God, and when you are in a relationship with a man whose heart is sold out to God, he will not disappoint you, because there is no lie or deceit where there is sincerity and divine leading. It’s the love of God that brings certainty.
What was the most memorable part of your wedding day?
I recall it was while I walked into the church that day, going towards the altar, wearing my white wedding gown. I turned back to look at the crowd present, and at that moment, I was filled with happiness and gratitude to God. You see, my parents had earlier warned me against wearing a white gown during my wedding because of their belief at that time that some brides who wore one failed to conceive. But I did.
You recently celebrated your 30th wedding anniversary. What are the lessons you have learned so far?
I learned that no one is immune to challenges in their marriage. Forbearance is one of the keys to a happy home. Patience is also key, because there is no perfect marriage. I also faced storms, but I held on, sought counsel, and applied wisdom, and the storms went away.
What advice would you give to young people who are planning to marry?
I particularly like to advise young women to seek a man whose heart is sold out to God. The times have changed; the way we were committed to the faith is not often what you see among youths today. Before you marry, cultivate personal discipline, let good elders in the faith mentor you, and most importantly, don’t rush into marriage.
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